Let’s get REAL here, people! So you’ve gotten past the First Date jitters, the Second Date confirmation and now it’s time to see if the physical chemistry is there. Now, don’t get your panties in a bunch. We aren’t necessarily saying you should or have to go all the way on the third, fourth or fifth date, but if it comes to that – well, that’s ok by us!
Sex is natural, wonderful, intimate, and honestly can be quite an adventure! Getting to know your body – and your partner’s – is what it’s all about. What flavor are you? Vanilla or Rainbow Sherbet? What flavor is he or she? It’s important to make sure you are both on the same page as you go down the relationship path. If you like a nice Chocolate with no toppings, and he or she likes a full-blown Sundae… well, things may be difficult.
Talking about or exploring physical intimacy, living preferences and habits, family commitments, friend time or pet requirements are all VERY important needs that should be discovered as you approach and secure a committed relationship. What’s the point of being with someone if it’s not going to go anywhere.. or not going to last at all?
Don’t be afraid to talk about the real stuff. Don’t be afraid of physical contact. It may just save you from a huge disappointment. After all, what’s a little spanking between lovers? If you need to spice up your relationship just give us a call or send us a message! We are here to help coach you through every aspect of your relationship.