Straight to the Heart

When you’re in a relationship and you find that you both are arguing more, or maybe things just feel strained- no matter how under appreciated you may feel, sometimes it’s good to step back and ask yourself “what have I done for my mate lately?” We know… and this isn’t automatic deflection – or giving in. What it is, is gaining appreciation THROUGH appreciation. It’s leading by example. It’s loving how you want to be loved.FOOD – When is the last time you cooked (and cleaned up after) their

Sex Jenga

There are many ways to keep things spicy in a committed monogamous relationship. As a married couple with kids we are always looking for new ways to reinvent the wheel. One night after the kids were put to sleep we pulled out some board games, poured a cocktail, and turned on some of our favorite tunes.We decided to play Jenga this time. If you’re not familiar with it, it’s the wood block tower that you have to pull a piece out and place it back on top. It’s extremely aggravating but loads of

Valentine Woes

It’s that time of year when Cupid is shooting his love filled bow, the stores are packed with pink and red hearts and giant boxes of chocolate. Lovers everywhere are shopping for that perfect romantic gift and planning that intimate dinner. However, does anyone think about the millions of singles that are dreading this day? Here’s what to do when you’re single on Valentine’s Day! TREAT YOURSELF- this is the day when you can say “It’s all about ME!” get your hair done, get your nails done, buy