Single Survival Guide During the Holidays

2023 is almost up and the holidays are in full-swing!
 
The holidays can be a magical, sparkly, wondrous time to behold in a relationship.
 
And other times–those single times–walking into a decorated room as a single woman over 50 can make you want to punch Santa in the face.
 
If you fall into the latter category this year, here are some thoughts on how the holidays can be survived, even while single.
 
Celebrate You: Shift your thoughts from celebrating alone, to celebrating you. (I know, easier said than done.) But if you take a few moments to treat yourself, it can take the holidays from a blue period to a much brighter and enjoyable experience. Seriously, give yourself something you have always wanted. It can be as simple as those earrings you have been eyeing for weeks, a spa day, or splurging on a Matchmaker so you’re not alone for the next one ;)… But I digress. Feeling truly happy and joyful also lends a hand to showing up as your best self out in the dating world, without you even realizing you have made the shift.
 
You would go all out for your kids/family this time of year. Why wouldn’t you do it for you? You deserve it.
 
Get Out of Your Routine: While you’re celebrating you, get out of your routine! Take advantage of your independence and head to the yoga class you never had time for before. After your class, while your endorphins are still pumping, make a list of all the single, fun, people you know and love. You will want to do this now while you’re in a positive mental state. You can never remember who you should call when you are sad, Friday night, with no place to go. Do it now! Then the next free evening you have you can make plans with those ladies for fancy drinks, dinner, and a show. You do not need a significant other to do those things!
 
Volunteer: And while all of those ideas may seem all about you, taking a moment for others truly does make you feel best of all. Volunteer your time giving to children in need or the local soup kitchen. Helping others will take the focus off of you and your single life and spread the true spirit of the holidays to others. It’s one of the most thoughtful gifts you can give.
 

Finally, ask for help and set boundaries with family and friends.
If you are in a place where you truly want to meet someone, let your friends and family know you are actively looking. People aren’t mind readers, so if you speak it out loud into the universe that you are open and ready for a relationship the higher the odds will be you get introduced to someone worth your time.
 
On the other hand, family can pry at times when it may be best for you to learn how to be independent first. Just like above, explain to your family that you are not rushing into anything and the pressure you may get from your kids or siblings doesn’t help you enjoy your independence the way that you deserve too. You do not need to be married or paired off to have an amazing holiday.
 
Whatever you feel works best for you this time of year, consider developing new routines and habits that mark positivity in your life right now. No matter what, remember that the holidays are not forever. Follow our advice and before you know it you will be ready to embark into the new year light and ready for love.

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Mix It Up

Do you ever feel like you’re doing the same thing over and over again? Of course you do with every day life routines like waking up, brushing teeth, eating, wash, rinse repeat. The REAL question is, is this routine becoming a bad habit? Is your love life a series of bad picks over and over?
Most often we gravitate to our “type.” Maybe it’s tall, dark, and naughty or loads of muscles and has to look like Dwayne Johnson (I mean come on he’s hunky!) We all have our thing but sometimes our thing is not working out. This just means your Love-dar (yes Love-dar) is way off base. Time to change it, remix your love life.

Make different choices by going outside your type – try going for brunette instead of blonde. How about picking the nice guy instead of the bad boy? Look for substance instead of surface – what lies under the hood is so important
You’ll be surprised what a new mix on your love life can do! If you need more help on how to fix your Love-dar don’t be shy drop us a line. We can help you take control of your love life and find your soulmate.

Love In The New Year

Tis the season to NOT be single! Fa la la la! This is your song now and your daily mantra. We’ve been crazy busy helping singles all over the nation and beyond find love, keep love and make love. It really is the season of giving and we want to give to YOU! Give you the gift of a soulmate.
We get it. The holidays are the toughest time of year for singles in search of “happily ever after.” There’s that date you need for the office party, going home to visit the family only to be judged about being alone, seeing old friends who are married and you’re not, or most importantly being the only one with no one to kiss at midnight on New Year’s Eve.
Here’s the bottom line: STOP waiting for it to come to you! STOP making those resolutions about taking action to find someone then NOT DOING IT! And STOP pretending you can do this on your own! Make 2018 the year of YOU. This is the year YOU are going let US help YOU find the love that YOU deserve and want!
We are here to help you every step of the way. Give us a call or drop us a line and let’s make your holiday magical! Contact us now!
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Spank You Very Much

Let’s get REAL here, people! So you’ve gotten past the First Date jitters, the Second Date confirmation and now it’s time to see if the physical chemistry is there. Now, don’t get your panties in a bunch. We aren’t necessarily saying you should or have to go all the way on the third, fourth or fifth date, but if it comes to that – well, that’s ok by us!
Sex is natural, wonderful, intimate, and honestly can be quite an adventure! Getting to know your body – and your partner’s – is what it’s all about. What flavor are you? Vanilla or Rainbow Sherbet? What flavor is he or she? It’s important to make sure you are both on the same page as you go down the relationship path. If you like a nice Chocolate with no toppings, and he or she likes a full-blown Sundae… well, things may be difficult.
Talking about or exploring physical intimacy, living preferences and habits, family commitments, friend time or pet requirements are all VERY important needs that should be discovered as you approach and secure a committed relationship. What’s the point of being with someone if it’s not going to go anywhere.. or not going to last at all?
Don’t be afraid to talk about the real stuff. Don’t be afraid of physical contact. It may just save you from a huge disappointment. After all, what’s a little spanking between lovers? If you need to spice up your relationship just give us a call or send us a message! We are here to help coach you through every aspect of your relationship.
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Dating online? Of course you are as are most of the world. It really is a virtual bar and yes it can be just as maddening as going out in person to find love.
There are still many candidates to choose from, (most of which you have zero clue if they are going to be great or not) there are still loads of rediculous pick-up lines, and then there’s getting to that moment of “Are you going to ask me out or what?!” We’re exhausted just blogging about it!

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No Excuses!

“The dog ate my homework.” “I have a stomach ache.” “No, really there’s no school today!” We’ve all used these excuses when we were young and a lot of people STILL use excuses as adults in the world of dating. There are the exceptions when it comes to getting out of a bad date, but when it comes to the important things like planning, transportation, paying etc. – leave those excuses for the kiddos.

“Oh no I forgot my wallet!” – Wait, so you’re saying you are going out on a date, trying to fall in love and you just happen to “forget” your wallet? There are no excuses for using this excuse! You are in one word: CHEAP. Bye, Felicia!
“Can you pick me up, I don’t have a car or a license?” – We understand that this can be a real issue. However, in the world of Uber and Lyft or the good old fashioned cab, there is zero excuse to ask your date to come pick you up and be your chauffeur all night. Ladies, once again this especially is a HUGE no-no if a man asks you to pick him up. Besides, it’s just not safe.
“I’m new in town, can you pick where to go on our date?” – Google, ever hear of it? Effort is key when it comes to dating. Ladies, the man should be planning the date PERIOD. If you’re a same sex couple it’s whomever asked who out. With the internet, smart phones, hell even the local library readily available there’s no excuse to not figure something out.
Need help in your dating life? Book a consult with us today as there are NO EXCUSES for you to not find love.

No Thanks A Latte

Ladies this one is especially for YOU. Let’s face it women are creatures who love to be wooed, courted, romanced, and, even in this day and age, taken out on a date. Once upon a time men were chivalrous and knew the fine art of “how to take a woman out.” With the rise of technology, this form of courtship has sadly faded.
We hear time and time again the popular date of choice is “Hey let’s meet for coffee.” HOLD THE PHONE! Where does it say anywhere that meeting at your local Starbucks equals a romantic first date?! We get the safety factor of meeting in a public setting, but COME ON guys – put some effort into your date plans!
Let’s break it down:

A For Effort- men that put care and effort into planning dates are usually the ones that put care and effort into dating YOU. A guy that just takes you out for coffee, may be jaded – and simply going out on too many first dates to really feel that he needs to put any more effort forth. Or maybe he simply just doesn’t care. Either way, aren’t you worth more than that Macchiato?
Cheap- you don’t have to spend your paycheck just to take someone out, but you DO need to put forth at least some effort (see above) into being creative and romantic. Wouldn’t you rather have an intimate dinner or a walk on the beach over hanging out with a bunch of people on their laptops sipping a three dollar Venti?
The Millennial Curse- people say that those under thirty wants to have sex first before they even consider going out on a real date with someone. Some think that the younger generation is all about short attention spans and convenience. We disagree. Just because our Smart Phones are glued to our hands doesn’t mean we don’t know how to treat a woman the way she deserves to be treated – ESPECIALLY when courting her! Ladies, what do you think? Screw before dating, or be courted first? Coffee house says “I don’t need to be courted.”
Need help weeding out the lazy and uncaring from the gems? We can do that! Set up a Date Coach session with us today!
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Ex Troubles

Your ex has left you, you’re a total wreck, you are desperate to get your ex back. So what do you do?? Here are some things to NEVER EVER do to try to get your beloved back. Remember, you broke up for a reason and most often getting back together simply does not work, especially if you’re down this:
The Trap – The absolute worst thing you can do is to trap a person simply because you can’t let go. Women- if you think having a baby is going to make him come back to you, you got another thing coming! Men- if you think impregnating a woman is going to save your relationship, you are in the Land of Denial. Creating life should never be taken lightly.
Stalking – Calling ten times a day, leaving voicemails crying and begging, posting on their Facebook wall, watching them from your car while they work. One word: CREEPY. Or two words: RESTRAINING ORDER.
Family- you may have had a great relationship with your ex’s family but showing up at their door crying a river and asking them to help you is big NO-NO. This is no one’s business but yours and your ex.

Getting your heart broken is one of the hardest things to go through. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Better to be single and happy then to be in a damaging relationship. There is someone for everyone! We are here to help YOU so stop trying and start healing! Whether it’s to fix your damaged relationship or move on to a new one. Set up your consult TODAY just click this link…I’M READY TO GET OVER MY EX!

Straight to the Heart

When you’re in a relationship and you find that you both are arguing more, or maybe things just feel strained- no matter how under appreciated you may feel, sometimes it’s good to step back and ask yourself “what have I done for my mate lately?” We know… and this isn’t automatic deflection – or giving in. What it is, is gaining appreciation THROUGH appreciation. It’s leading by example. It’s loving how you want to be loved.

FOOD – When is the last time you cooked (and cleaned up after) their favorite dinner?
SEX – When is the last time you just felt like pleasing them? Making them feel special.
GOING OUT – Hate action or horror films? Take him to one. Don’t like foreign romance flicks? Surprise her with one. You get what we’re saying.
MASSAGE – We all have long days, Sometimes a body just likes to be touched.
KISSING – A sudden french kiss can change the world.
MUSIC – Going to the store together? On the way, BLAST their favorite song.
The list can go on and on and on. Stop the stand off. Do onto the one you love, as you want done onto you. If all else fails you can always have us help you! Give us a call today!

Sex Jenga

There are many ways to keep things spicy in a committed monogamous relationship. We may be the best matchmakers out there, but we are also a married couple with kids – so we are always looking for new ways to reinvent the wheel. One night after the kids were put to sleep we pulled out some board games, poured a cocktail, and turned on some of our favorite tunes.
We decided to play Jenga this time. If you’re not familiar with it, it’s the wood block tower that you have to pull a piece out and place it back on top. It’s extremely aggravating but loads of fun. To change things up this time, each of us took half the blocks and wrote something sexy, steamy, or silly on each one. Think of it like those Sexy Dice you find at Romance Shops.

Three words: BEST. NIGHT. EVER! We took board games to a whole new level. Turned it up to eleven and Game Night now became DATE Night! This is just the tip of the iceberg for what we do and what we have our couples in need do. Almost anything can be made sexy if you just use your imagination. Strip Poker anyone?
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